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coriann said:
i don't know if to call it self confidence 또는 apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in 이전 situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk.... i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, 당신 should learn to accept yourself for 당신 당신 are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if 당신 will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if 당신 just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people the first thing 당신 need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe 당신 can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P and then 당신 go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until 당신 start to realize what a special and awesome person 당신 are then step two, which 당신 can do while 당신 are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) 당신 don't have to do anything drastic that 당신 think 당신 r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when 당신 open up to people 당신 start to realize the deep dark things that 당신 thought were so horrible about 당신 aren't really that bad then, when 당신 are confident about who 당신 are as a person 당신 would be 더 많이 confident that people will like that person :) thus making 당신 더 많이 confident about yourself so that 당신 can make that 다음 move, even if your nerves still kill 당신 sometimes, lol hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if 당신 wanna listen to me :P
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