How do 당신 relieve shyness

I really need help with this. I'm incredibly shy around certain people and I'm trying to talk to this guy but I just can't. Every time I get close to him my stomach gets wiggly and I feel sick. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME :(
 nikkiluvzu posted over a year ago
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cutiepie0310 said:
I have the same problem,but I can give 당신 some suggestions.

1.breath deeply a couple times before talking to the person

2.Imagine the person as someone 당신 are comfortable talking to(like a sister,mom,or friend)

3.Make sure 당신 DONT get so nervous, 당신 end up 연기 like your a crazy person.

4.Have 더 많이 of a layed back attitude.

and the last part might not help about what your talking about,but I'm not sure

Best 조언 is to let loose and allow your imperfections to shine through.

Often, we tend to hesitate and hold ourselves back because we fear that our efforts will not be perfect. We hate to allow others to think we are weak.

But 당신 are not weak 의해 showing your flaws. Heck, 당신 are
stronger than most!

Allowing your flaws to be seen simply means that 당신 are asserting a belief in your strengths.

hope this helps :)
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i like this :)
coriann posted over a year ago
prophet69 said:
Shyness decreases over time as 당신 are 더 많이 social and be 더 많이 social around people. Face your fears and try to say something to people to decrease your shyness, it would eventually disappear as youget older. Also, try to smile 더 많이 often, people will thinkyour confident and will likely talk to you. The 더 많이 social 당신 are, the 더 많이 your shyness will go away.
I
used to be very shy when I was 13. Have mostly gotten over it :)
This helped me a lot now I am crazy in public
1.Start 의해 talking 더 많이 to your family until 당신 aren't shy around them
2. then do that with friends
3. in small groups in public
that worked for me.
Help lot of deserving people. Try to help those who are depressed, suppressed and oppressed in life. Thus 당신 will gain over a period of time lot of experience and knowledge and finally one 일 당신 will be fully conversant and familiar.
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I do all of those things but they don't help :(
nikkiluvzu posted over a year ago
KaulitZfan said:
i have no cule i have the seme problem
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adultswimperson said:
당신 have to stand out and stop being afraid of being shy and speak up if 당신 want to be heard.
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Makeupdiva said:
I have the same problem. I would really like to know how to get rid of it. It's the one thing in my life that is stopping me from getting what I want.
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cherry_Dropzx said:
i have this issue to but i guess 당신 just need to get used to talking to this guy, um if 당신 have other people around 당신 lke your 프렌즈 maybe that will help coz when i liked this guy i found it easier when my bestie was near me i dunno.....good luck :D
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coriann said:
i don't know if to call it self confidence 또는 apathy, but lately i've found myself a lot less shy than in 이전 situations, maybe it was because i took a break from school for a while idk....

i think the only way sometimes to get rid of your fears is to face them sorry :( i think cutiepie has some good points, 당신 should learn to accept yourself for 당신 당신 are, stop short changing yourself, lol, it's a process and something that doesn't happen over night, im sorry but i don't know if 당신 will be able to get rid of your shyness fast enough to get with this boy (you might) if 당신 just hold your breath and have a go at it XD, that works for a lot of people

the first thing 당신 need to do is self acceptance acknowledge you're shy, and that's okay, lots of people are shy, maybe 당신 can even use that so your advantage in some weird way :P

and then 당신 go on accepting yourself and your flaws and maybe even pointing out some good stuff about yourself, until 당신 start to realize what a special and awesome person 당신 are

then step two, which 당신 can do while 당신 are doing step one is GO OUT! face your fears :) 당신 don't have to do anything drastic that 당신 think 당신 r not ready for, but just go out more, and then be around people more, open up to your friends, when 당신 open up to people 당신 start to realize the deep dark things that 당신 thought were so horrible about 당신 aren't really that bad

then, when 당신 are confident about who 당신 are as a person 당신 would be 더 많이 confident that people will like that person :) thus making 당신 더 많이 confident about yourself so that 당신 can make that 다음 move, even if your nerves still kill 당신 sometimes, lol

hey, at least this is my theory, but i'm a quack, my plans never work, so be careful if 당신 wanna listen to me :P
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thank 당신 everybody for your help I really appreciate the helpfulness and I'll get back to 당신 on my shyness status :)
nikkiluvzu posted over a year ago
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