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Sorry to bother 당신 but I really need to get this off my chest (literally). So I know every girls dream is to have big boobs but for me it's the opposite. I'm 14 and I am a size 10DD, I have the biggest boobs in my whole 년 and I hate it. They really annoy me especially during P.E. I'm really insecure about them and I find that men that are way older than me and boys my age are always staring at my chest and I absolutely hate it, it makes me feel really self-conscious. I have heard of people wrapping material around them to sort of squash them but I don't know. Help please :(
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I NEVER WANT BIG CHESTS DX
prussiaducky posted over a year ago
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^ don't be an asshole man, it's not gross it's just natural. you're making her feel worse.
brandonaz posted over a year ago
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Thank 당신 so much for all your help guys, it means a lot to me, this goes to everyone who answered
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Makeupdiva said:
I get insecurities. I get insecure about myself as well. There isn't much 당신 can do about it except get a breast reduction but I don't recommend 당신 get one cause of your age and the fact that it will empty your parents account. The only think I guess 당신 could do if there are men staring at 당신 is to ignore it, if it makes 당신 feel really uncomfortable, walk away find your 프렌즈 and stay with them until 당신 have to go home. I get stared at all the time, but I generally ignore it 또는 at least try too. I've never heard of any material that 당신 could 덮개, 랩 around your chest with. Just be healthy and exercise regularly. Don't your breast size get 당신 down, as I said not much 당신 could do. But if it still bothers 당신 than go speak to your doctor about it, maybe he 또는 she could give 당신 some tips on what to do, don't stress yourself over it.
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AlOoOosh said:
I guess 당신 must a doctor and he absolutely is going to help 당신 with it :)
There are medications for that ..
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posted over a year ago 
ssook78 said:
oh uh i dont want big boobs but wear a big big big t-shirt at p.e 또는 if 당신 have a uniform thing ask the teacher for a very very big t-shirt
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jester616 said:
What you've heard of is girls using first aid wraps, like you'd use for a sprained ankle, to bind down their breasts, and I've heard it's very uncomfortable. Have 당신 tried wearing a sports bra? Those tend to provide the most support and minimize the size.

Because of your age, a doctor is unlikely to perform surgery, but if there is stress on your back, which is likely, and your family has insurance, surgery would be covered in that circumstance as it's not done for only cosmetic purposes.

As for men and boys staring, they will do that, regardless of how young 당신 actually are. I know it's hard to ignore, but I think the 조언 to stick with your friends, if possible, is the best for now. 당신 will gain 더 많이 confidence as 당신 get older. Sorry that this is not much help for now.
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XxTheBeatlesxX said:
Well people out and out tell me that I have a big butt and I just ignore them even though it kinda bothers me. I just put up with it. I'm not gonna do anything about it. But breasts are a whole different thing kinda. Yeah it makes 당신 uncomfortable when they stare, I get that. I don't think 당신 should worry about it unless it's causing 당신 physical pain (like back pain 또는 something). Otherwise, just tough it out I guess. I'll support you!
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hetalianstella said:
Have 당신 tried wearing a sports bra? It will flatten them out and make them appear smaller.
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prussiaducky said:
lose weight, I'm serious .___. 14 년 olds don't naturally get a big chest >.> no offense, but it isn't healthy to have all of that extra weight. Lose weight....and you're bust will get smaller. Tell me your height and weight (yet again, I'm not trying to be mean)
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... I had that chest size naturally when I was 14 and I'm underweight... .___.; *le just throwing that sorta thing out there*
8theGreat posted over a year ago
Book-Freak said:
What countries bra size system is that? Can 당신 possibly convert it to UK system, because I have no idea how big 10DD is in UK sizes.

As for 당신 thinking their too big... Wear Sports Bras instead of wrapping them down as it's 더 많이 comfortable and looks better I think. Also, I don't mean to be rude, but are 당신 slightly overweight? Because weight can effect bra size.
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kakalover said:
I feel 당신 girl. I'm 5'3" and I'm a 38DD It's hard, and I totally get your insecurity. It can be rough. I always used to be so self-conscious because I could feel the stares of all the guys that go to my school. But 당신 know what? I had to learn to accept it. God doesn't make mistakes. I used to cry myself to sleep because I felt so horrible, and I had back pains and shit. But 당신 know, there's always doctors that can help 당신 out m'dear.

--GiGi Ingenario
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KohakuJSMA said:
no, it is not EVERY GIRLS DREAM. i don't like it, either...

(random XD!)
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 no, it is not EVERY GIRLS DREAM. i don't like it, either... (random XD!)
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shadowlover3000 said:
At least yours aren't 36A.
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posted over a year ago 
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EXACTLY
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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I'd prefer for them to be small because I do a lot of horse riding and small boobs would be much 더 많이 convenient.
H-roxy posted over a year ago
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True, I sneak through fences and tight spaces, so it helps xD
shadowlover3000 posted over a year ago
laura199627 said:
Don´t be insecure. I mean many girls would like to have your boobs size (like 당신 said) and others no. 당신 can´t change your body. And, almost every boy stares at every girl´s boobs.
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CielXlizzy19 said:
Yeah, same with me.

Though, I'm at that age where most girls my age are flat-chested, so walking around with a REAL chest (32C), even teachers stare at me.....

....I just don't like it. .____.
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8theGreat said:
I understand your situation perfectly.
I know that it's tough, but 당신 have to learn to accept that about you. I don't really like my boobs either, and I'm roughly the same size as you.

당신 absolutely do not want to squish your boobs down with anything. That is extremely damaging and is a whole heck of a lot 더 많이 painful than it's worth. I did it once, and it felt like I was dying. Seriously.

Just learn to accept and 사랑 it as part of who 당신 are. That's all 당신 can do, really.
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