Should I be her Friend 또는 not? I really need help! Im about to cry!

Me and my friend have been through a lot these past couple of weeks. We have fought, we have huggged. But now she doesnt even notice me anymore, she spends all her time with her friend (who will not be named). She Sits 의해 her at lunch, she talks to her not me, her 비밀번호 is her best 프렌즈 name, She had me change it for her. I told her today that I tought she was ignoring me and spending all her time with her new BFF and she just got all weird and started saying she is going through a lot. She also tells me that she doesnt have enough time to hang with her BFF, But she does! I text her and her 프렌즈 and i ask where she is and they always say out with her BFF. I have now heard she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. I heard that and started to cry and I am a boy. I dont know what to do. Please help me!
 chocopockyninja posted over a year ago
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Gracie1995 said:
I just went through a similar situation with my BFF and I told her I still wanted to be 프렌즈 and she said she did too and we decided not to hang out for a 월 and that really helped.
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CULLEN-HALE said:
srry bout what ur going through... i think that the best thing could do is just tell her 당신 still want to be friends, have a real sit down 심장 to 심장 talk with her... maybe txt (or message) her a little but not too much (you dont want her to think 당신 are stalking her... i have had frieds do tht 2 pple b4) and if she dosent have much to say just tell her "well i guess i'll ttyl :)" and leave it at that maybe she just needs some 우주 또는 time to think are something like that... good luck and if 당신 need to talk feel free to message me i always help (or try to anyway) my 프렌즈 with this kind of stuff. once again good luck!
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posted over a year ago 
nafela said:
u see thats the thing shes a girl and ur a guy. she probably just needs some time with a girl. because its probably embarassing for her to talk about girl stuff with 당신 dont take it personal just talk to her and tell her how u feel. she probably is going thrue a tuff time and needs her 우주 and she probably just feels weird around u.
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hope my 조언 helps
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i agree with my answer and this 1 is good 조언 2
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jedigal1990 said:
Wow this is a hard situation. This is what i would do. I would just give her 우주 for the time being but let her know 당신 still want to be her friend and that 당신 will be there for her if she needs 당신 other than that though just give her 우주 i know this is difficult but people make their own decisions. This is just what i would do if i were in your position i hope this helps and wish 당신 the best of luck
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princesspinkla said:
I am so sorry I think 당신 should just do what 당신 think is right and if it dose not work out I am sooooo sorry I know how that fills but if it turns out that ya'll will be 프렌즈 agin that is great and I also think 당신 should give her some time

P.S. hope it works out
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posted over a year ago 
sweet_n_silly said:
oh my gosh! that's so tragic! since I am a girl, I understand a girl's brain occasionally. here's what I think is happenin. I think that it's not that she's mad at u 또는 anything like that, I think she just needs time with someone else. u can't help her with what she's going through, but her other friend can, so she's spending time with the one that can help. I think u need to give her some 우주 and time and eventually she'll come back when her issue's been helped sufficiently. i'm not sayin to back off completely though, make sure she knows ur still gunna be there and u wanna help her if u can. be supportive and patient and i'm sure things'll work out.
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Kaylyn15181 said:
First of all, it doesn't matter if 당신 are a boy and 당신 are crying. That is sexist. 초 of all, Just talk to her. She probably has a lot of stuff going on and is afraid to taLK TO 당신 ABOUT IT.
WHEN girls get to that age they don't rly want to talk to a guy about what they are going through. I should know, My best friend is a guy. Just really talk to her and tell her how 당신 feel. It will be ok in the long run! She respects 당신 또는 else she wouldnt have even given 당신 an explanation for why she hasnt bee n talking to 당신 no matter how petty it seemed. I had the same situation. It will blow over 당신 just need to talk about it and dont hold anything back.
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dsgt5 said:
well i am sorry for what is happning. It sounds like she's inoring 당신 for a reason. Mabey people are teasing her that 당신 and her are dating. 또는 mabey she just feals akward around 당신 because 당신 gyz are like not like both a girl...and most of all girls need someone to talk to like about gyz and 당신 wudnt understand, and girls always need a girl to hang out with like to the mall, and stuff like that, well anyway i hope i helped...bye and good luck!..p.s try to understand what she's going through and dont jump to conclusions.
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 well i am sorry for what is happning. It sounds like she's inoring 당신 for a reason. Mabey people are teasing her that 당신 and her are dating. 또는 mabey she just feals akward around 당신 because 당신 gyz are like not like both a girl...and most of all girls need someone to talk to like about gyz and 당신 wudnt understand, and girls always need a girl to hang out with like to the mall, and stuff like that, well anyway i hope i helped...bye and good luck!..p.s try to understand what she's going through and dont jump to conclusions.
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oh and she might also not wana hang out w/ 당신 bcuz mabey she wants a boyfriend and when she hang out w/ 당신 gyz are gonna think that ur going out
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smg09 said:
i know ima sound like a jack 나귀, 엉덩이 but lmao ur a guy ok this is my 조언 if ur bff is a chick shes probably out partying with her new friend and she doesnt want u 2 know cuz u have been bff's 4eva and she thinks of u 더 많이 than a 랜덤 party buddie that she can do stupid things with at partys and not feel bad, 또는 shes embarrassed 2 be seen with u at a party, 또는 shes embarassed period to hang out with u, 또는 shes just a 암캐, 암 캐 and thinks her new bff is 냉각기 than u 또는 something those r my opinions and about 75% of my opinions happened to me be4 so it might be false but thats what i think kk
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K5-HOWL said:
ok im not sure how to help but boys should not be afraid to cry -_-
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