Cutting?

i'm a cutter. it's almost an addiction. what do i do?
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It IS a form of addiction. I suggest 당신 ask someone 당신 really trust for help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength to realize something has escalated into a big problem that 당신 can't solve on your own.
april333 posted over a year ago
 Castalinia posted over a year ago
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RobinFan360 said:
Depends on the reason.
I don't know how it feels since I don't cut, but maybe 당신 can try and handle it like sucking your thumb? Put something over your wrists(or wherever 당신 cut) that 당신 can't open. Maybe like a bunch of duct tape? 또는 something that needs a code to unlock which only a family member would know?

And then maybe 당신 could try cutting something else if the reason 당신 cut is to vent your frustration.

Again I don't really know much :/
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Why would she lock something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted over a year ago
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^ so she can't cut it
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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What does she means 의해 locking something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted over a year ago
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I don't know. Something like a big bracelet that can have a little lock
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
seeuvocaloid3 said:
message me so we can talk about it because this type of stuff is serious
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okay
Castalinia posted over a year ago
XxKeithHarkinxX said:
STOP!
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......it's hard
Castalinia posted over a year ago
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I know, i know noting about this, but it does 당신 no good it just hurts 당신 more, wear rubber wrist bands so 당신 can't.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
loYol said:
Well for one, try stopping. If 당신 can't stop, remove all sharp objects away from yourself. When 당신 feel the need to cut, try to distract yourself. Maybe find some new hobbies.

Secondly, get help.
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Panda-Hero said:
Stop. Wear a 재킷, 자 켓 ALL 일 (I know it's hot but I wear jackets every 일 Bl) so 당신 don't see your arms, and stay around your family so 당신 won't have time 또는 privacy to cut yourself.
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adultswimperson said:
Mental Hospital.

True story.
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Nopenopenope
Dogtier posted over a year ago
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO
Castalinia posted over a year ago
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@Castalinia, If your parents don't want 당신 to die then 당신 should stop starting now, otherwise they WILL send 당신 to one because they think your trying to commit suicide.
adultswimperson posted over a year ago
buffyl0v3r44 said:
I think 당신 should try to talk to someone close to 당신 about it, most people would recommend a psychiatrist, but truthfully I don't think they work, but 저기요 whatever works for you. Cutting yourself doesn't solve any problems so just stop. 당신 obviously have issues if your trying to hurt yourself, so I think 당신 just to relax and take things easy for a while. I checked 프로필 out and 당신 seem quite depressed, emo, ect. so I think 당신 should take that off your 프로필 and make it happier, I think that its just reminding 당신 of the pain your going through, so I think if 당신 start telling yourself positive things and being 더 많이 positive then it will take 당신 of the dark and bring 당신 더 많이 into the light. I hoped this helped, sorry I'm not the best at giving advice, but if your not comfortable talking to family 또는 프렌즈 then 당신 are 더 많이 than welcome to message me anytime!
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JamesMalsow said:
ummm go some where were their is no knifes 또는 any thing sharp!!!
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 ummm go some where were their is no knifes 또는 any thing sharp!!!
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i use pencil sharpener blades
Castalinia posted over a year ago
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oh but still
JamesMalsow posted over a year ago
TheDirector said:
If 당신 can, 당신 should see a psychologist. And I'm not saying that because there's something wrong with you.

People tend to cut themselves when they've gone through something traumatizing 또는 a terrible tragedy.

Psychologists are here to help people like you. They talk through your problems with 당신 and try their very best to help 당신 stop whatever problem 또는 "addiction" that 당신 are going through.

If 당신 cannot see a psychologist, then try talking to a friend that 당신 know 당신 can rely on.

If 당신 don't have a friend 당신 can rely on, then I'm always available to talk to. I've dealt with cases such as yours, and I'm nonjudgmental in every aspect, but it's all up to you.

Best of luck, sweetie!


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Thanks. The only friend i have lives in Dallas (an 시간 away from me) and is moving in July because her father is in the war.
Castalinia posted over a year ago
Ale1152 said:
Like I fucking said on the 조언 spot, 당신 fucking stop. No matter what. It's fucking stupid to do something like that.
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Agreed...
BeastBoyCahill posted over a year ago
canddfan29 said:
don't cut yourself! why do 당신 do that?!
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noahnstar1616 said:
Wow. I know you're depressed, but wow...
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x-menobsessed26 said:
Just like I 게시됨 in the 질문 당신 asked in the 조언 section, talk to me if 당신 need to. Sometimes it helps 더 많이 when 당신 know someone is listening. I know my friend ComicLover13 also does things like this. Everything 당신 say stays between 당신 and me. We've done this many times for many different people.
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Thanks. i will
Castalinia posted over a year ago
RainbowOtakuX3 said:
당신 should try to find a healthier way to express your negative feelings.
Like, crying, talking to someone, convey your feelings onto paper.. Like a journal 또는 diary.. Something other than hurting yourself.
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But it helps...a little
Castalinia posted over a year ago
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^ Even so, it's not healthy. Just.. try to relieve yourself of the habbit of cutting, and try something else that could be equally as effective.
RainbowOtakuX3 posted over a year ago
Me_Iz_Here said:
Try to stop. Easier said than done, I know. But just try. If it's too hard, talk to someone. It can just be a friend, family member, anyone 당신 can trust. Even if you're uncomfortable with it, 당신 have to tell someone. Also, try to avoid any triggers. Sorry, I'd 사랑 to help 더 많이 but I'm not a very helpful person. :/
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It's okay. 당신 did help.
Castalinia posted over a year ago
Dogtier said:
Well... I recommend talking to someone 당신 trust. People 당신 know won't exploit you, 또는 blackmail 당신 are anything like that.
Talk to them about it, vent to them. That helps quite a bit, and puts less stress on you, and hopefully controls the urge to cut.

I know, quitting is hard, but it's not worth it in the end. Hurting yourself, harming yourself, killing yourself does absolutely nothing.
There are many things to look 앞으로 to, many positive things and good people, and ending all those chances at happiness and all that is NOT worth it.
I'm sure your 프렌즈 and family care about 당신 and would be very upset if that happened.
I'm saying this because I know cutting can turn into something more. And that's never good.

I'm am bad at giving advice. This is a subject I take seriously... so I tried to help to the best of my ability.
Sorry if my 조언 sucks.
Just remember there are people out there that really care.
If worse comes to worse, talk to me. I'm willing to hear 당신 out, always.
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Thanks......:'(
Castalinia posted over a year ago
Mecksey said:
Castalinia, I used to do the same thing. My wrist is covered with scars. And I used to make eraser marks on my lower stomach. Also on my left leg. It seemed impossible for me to stop. I was addicted, too. To be honest, my parents didn't seem to help me. So I talked to my aunt. And then I talked with my counselor. She helped me realize why I did cut. I cut because I felt I was ugly, that people hated me and were out to get me dead. That's how I felt. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful because I'm me. There's no other me. And she made me realize that I don't need people to like me to get through life. I don't need a lot of 프렌즈 to be happy. My life's for me, not anyone else. I've also realized that I can also have someone to help me be happy. For me, that's Ralph Macchio. Just watching his movies, 또는 looking at him, 또는 hearing his voice makes me happy. He's another reason that helped me stop.

I'm sorry this probably didn't help.
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springely said:
An hero.
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KJBiggestFan said:
Stop telling the internet and get HELP.
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ripper124 said:
Idk... when your a grown up 당신 can get a job the cut this. That sounds fun. ^-^
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ilovemichael17 said:
find something to distract you. i have a friend who used to do it but she found something to keep her mind off of it and she stopped almost automatically
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BeastBoyCahill said:
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Please...
BeastBoyCahill posted over a year ago
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i know. i'm sorry, Beasty.
Castalinia posted over a year ago
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