I once had a crush on a player. I called him my Germany. Then my best friend, who had a crush on him at one point in time, said she hates him because he is a player and then I found out he was under age drinking and came to school drunk. I stopped liking him. Because I was worried a bit.
(And 의해 the way, if 당신 ask me, it was pretty clear what 당신 were asking 의해 this. All these other people seem to need an actual 질문 mark 또는 they get confused. *eye roll*)