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Goldilottes said:
Thats alright hunni, I can tell 당신 most people would have trouble starting that conversation xx To be honest, most peeps don't tell their parents if they're not virgins anymore, It's just not the kind of thing we do... BUT, if in your case 당신 need to, and 당신 have a really important reason why, 당신 could go to a clinic first where they'll treat 당신 as anonymous and help 당신 get emergency contraception 또는 find a way of telling your parents without them intruding on the situation. There are loads of places teens can get help about that sort of thing, so don't worry. I don't know how old 당신 are but there are lots of options. If the reason 당신 need to tell your parents is because of something that needs to be dealt with quickly like if 당신 didn't use a condom 또는 it 스플릿, 분할 또는 something, 또는 because 당신 were raped, then 당신 should definitely go to a teen sexual health help clinic 또는 tell one of your parents (recommend your mom) If 당신 just feel 당신 should tell her because 당신 had sex, then that's not really the kind of thing I'd do, but 당신 could still have a quiet word with your Mom- starting the sentence 의해 saying 당신 need to talk to her about a serious matter and you'd appreciate her to try to understand and be respectful towards you. It may be a shock to her because you're her daughter and she probably still sees 당신 as her baby, but I know she'll understand and she will actually appreciate it that 당신 trust her enough to confide in her. Alternatively, 당신 could tell an older sister 또는 당신 best friend, if you'd be 더 많이 comfortable with that. Personally, if I were to tell anyone it would be my best friend. Good luck bbes xx
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