저기요 anyone know how to get over a devastating break up?

My boyfriend dumped me in public. I'm serious. He just called my friend and yelled out "hey, does she know I just broke up with her?"

I feel devastated! I mean I cried through most of the day. Any suggestions?
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worst part is, he has a crush on my frenemy, who's currently dating his best friend! He says he's gonna try to get her to 날짜 him and stuff... it kills me!
justingurl99 posted over a year ago
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NinaDobrev13 said:
Firstly, im sorry!

And secondly, listen to Taylor Swift?
The best ones are:
~Cold As You
~Dear John
~Forever & Always
~Haunted
~If This Was A Movie
~Last Kiss
~A Perfectly Good Heart
~Picture To Burn
~Should've Said No
~The Story Of Us
~Tell Me Why
~The Way I Loved You
~White Horse
~You're Not Sorry
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snowwhitesilver said:
Go up to him, look un-affected, and then 펀치 him in the face in front of everyone! I'm serious. Then, smile, and walk away. Hope it helps. It'd help me.
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I sorta cried my eyes out and people saw that. O_O. I managed to slap him,...
justingurl99 posted over a year ago
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Nice girl! You've got guts, he obviously f'd up!
snowwhitesilver posted over a year ago
Usui--takumi said:
Get a new BF.
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All the guys in our school are pathetic. They're all stupid and betraying like him...
justingurl99 posted over a year ago
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@justingurl99 Well then... Try looking somewhere else and follow your 심장 :]
Usui--takumi posted over a year ago
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ya ...look in tution classes 또는 it is not necessary to have a bF all the time
Princess_seki posted over a year ago
jeannette27 said:
sorry to hear the news here are some suggestions.
1:cry when 당신 feel 당신 wanna cry(its therputic)as long as its not in front of him 또는 his friends
2:make a list of all his bad qualities, things 당신 will not miss and think of that list anytime 당신 start thinking of him.
3:shopping helps
4:spend time with ppl who 사랑 and support you
5:start focusing on your self;you are single now 당신 have that right.
6:workout its the best stress reliever and 당신 will feel good and look good:)
7:get a hair cut 또는 a new hairstyle 또는 if 당신 can color your hair this is also very theraputic
8:eat 더 많이 heathier it release good vitamins in your body that make 당신 feel good and give 당신 energy
9:do something nice for someone else.give to a charity 또는 something this also makes 당신 feel good
10:smile and laugh any chance 당신 get this also helps up your mood.
11:when 당신 are in front of your ex act like the breakup did not affect you.there is saying called "kill em with kindness"believe me it works.
12:and last realize that 당신 will find better 사랑 out there.
hope I helped:)
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Thanks for the advice! :)
justingurl99 posted over a year ago
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당신 welcome,I've been through my share of breakups I understand.also I forgot to suggest is to stay busy like read a book 또는 organize your room this also helps
jeannette27 posted over a year ago
Tdinoahiscute4 said:
Let's see, 당신 can listen to Owl City, Taylor Swift, 또는 The Script.
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Won't that make me even 더 많이 sad?
justingurl99 posted over a year ago
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I guess. But it helped my friends.
Tdinoahiscute4 posted over a year ago
Hermione-Fan361 said:
Well, when I got dumped (on my birthday), I didn't cry even a little. This guy was using me to get to my BFF.

For you, I suggest a long nap, a good,long,hot shower, and watching annoying 주황색, 오렌지 on YouTube.
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thanks... :(
justingurl99 posted over a year ago
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Sure thing. Hope 당신 feel better soon
Hermione-Fan361 posted over a year ago
Sprinter23 said:
The last thing 당신 wanna do is rebound with some other guy. That's only gonna hurt both 당신 and him.
Let yourself hurt a little bit. It's okay. It's natural. 당신 don't have to cry through every class, but let yourself have a little bit of grieving time in private every 일 until the pain dulls down.
Don't blame yourself. What he did was wrong and even if it was partially your fault, if he was going to treat 당신 that way then he wasn't worth your time anyway.
Find comfort in other things to take your mind off him. Watch your 가장 좋아하는 movies, play your 가장 좋아하는 video games, hang out with close, reliable friends. Try not to talk about him too much. Naturally he's gonna come up, but don't dwell on him.
And if 당신 really need to, vent on paper. This is always what works best for me. In your diary 또는 a notebook 또는 whatever, vent all your negative emotions so 당신 don't have to dump them on everyone else.
You'll meet other guys and he wasn't right for you. Don't overreact over it. It's gonna hurt, but it doesn't have to kill you.
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