how do 당신 make big decisions??

step 01: Find out what your priorities are.
step 02: Find out which school fits your higher priorities best.
step 03: Think about it until 당신 feel comfortable with the desicion.
step 04: Act on that desicion.

당신 have to choose whichever school fits your needs best.

I had the same choice a couple years back, public versus private for high school. I chose public because the public high school where I am has programs that aren't offered at private schools near me. It has programs like sociology, psychology in relationships, multiple bio classes, creative writing, human anatomy, and a good gifted class. Since I'm going into psychology, it made 더 많이 sense for me to go to public school to get those courses.

당신 have to look at it the same way. Look at the courses each school offers and go to the school that has 더 많이 that interests 당신 and will suit what 당신 want to do with your life in the future. Don't worry about your friends. 당신 can keep in touch with them no matter which school 당신 go to, and you'll make new ones, anyway. I have like, a dozen 프렌즈 who went to private high schools, and I still see them often enough.

Usually when i make a big decision i make a list of the pros and cons of each answer to the question. I break it down into small groups...i'm going to take your problem as an example
1. which is the furthest to travel to - can 당신 get there in time, do they have free transport 또는 do 당신 have to pay and if so can 당신 afford it?
2. one is free-dress 당신 say - will 당신 be comfortable in your own clothes in an environment that is not used to you? Will your style be bullied in some way and can 당신 deal with that?
3. uniforms - do 당신 have to pay for them and can your parents afford it every term to get 당신 a new one? Will 당신 feel comfortable in it?
4. Which school has the clubs and/or 애프터스쿨 activities 당신 enjoy and could take part in?
5. Which school is best for your needs? If 당신 like art 더 많이 then maths, do they have a better art department then a maths department?
6. What are the success rates? Is one school marginally better then the other for a field of subject 당신 could do well in?
7. Will one school give 당신 더 많이 confidence and ability to go further into the educational system then the other - such as scholarships and better teaching to get 당신 to uni?
8. Are 당신 actually Catholic? If not, are 당신 willing to become so just to get in a certain school? Will 당신 feel pressurised to convert if they find out you're not?

And so forth until 당신 feel you've covered everything and see which has the 더 많이 yes'es.