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An important issue, so answer please.

I'm not gay, nor lesbian, etc....
Plus, I don't see any wrong with being gay, lesbian, homo 또는 bi! I don't see any right with this either.. Which means that I'm neutral.

But I just have a little question, why each time I say to a girl that I like/love her, she understands me the wrong way? However, my mind is totally pure 의해 saying that to her. Precisely Americans (no offense to any of them). I'm female though, and I usually like girls as my best friends, 또는 even as my sisters, not as AHEM!
I like to talk to girls 더 많이 than talking to guys.
All my group 프렌즈 is full of girls.
I play with them, having fun together (don't let your mind go to the wrong side please, handle it)..I'm really sick of this. Like imagine it, every time I say to a girl "I like you" she objects strongly and says "I'm not a gay", even though, I'm not either. that happened to me once and I was absolutely embarrassed 의해 this. (Happened on Fanpop, 의해 the way)

What are your thoughts on this? :/
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it's retarded beyond belief
shadowlover3000 posted over a year ago
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^ WOW!
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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ImAdorkable said:
I'm not a lesbian 또는 bi. Me and two girl 프렌즈 (two words, not one) say stuff like that, too. Those two are really my only two 프렌즈 that are girls. I hang out with guys more, cause I hate the drama girls bring. I have like four best 프렌즈 that are guys, and sometimes I get mistaken for being bisexual for the way I act. It's totally normal if 당신 hang out with girls 더 많이 than guys, 또는 guys 더 많이 than girls. Just quickly explain to them that 당신 aren't lesbian 또는 bi, 당신 just meant it in a friendly way. Me and my best guy friend tell eachother we 사랑 eachother a lot, it doesn't change our relationship. Good luck with whatever happens.
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I have lots of 프렌즈 (girls not guys) 'cause I prefer them, but my best friend is one. Only one. And I know her, as well as she does. And she doesn't bring the dramas all right at my face, 'cause I and her don't like this either. Anyway, the girls that I'm talking about I actually don't know very well. And I feel like I 사랑 the way of how one of them think 또는 act, so I tell her "I like you", 당신 know the reaction after so.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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Try politely explaining to them that 당신 meant it innocently.
ImAdorkable posted over a year ago
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Probably right. Will see. Thanks. :)
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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No problem. :)
ImAdorkable posted over a year ago
Me_Iz_Here said:
happens to me, really irritating.

just ignore it 또는 tell them to stop.
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당신 think I have to do so? Well, I won't tell any girl that I like her then ignore her 또는 to tell her to stop, because I like her.. 당신 know.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
Trainofdoom said:
Aw me, that has happened to me..(us?) too!
If they are not gay and I am not gay then there is no problem with it.

Just follow it up with a "no homo"
hoped this helped me!
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=^_^= Thank me. I think I will handle it 다음 time. I just needed my opinion on that. xD
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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My welcome! (?)
Trainofdoom posted over a year ago
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Or, I'm welcome. XD
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
Hailie_45 said:
당신 kinda hurt me 의해 say "Precisely Americans", but the "no offense.." sentence cured that.
Anyway, that happens a lot to me. I actually don't know what to say after then, and yes this so embarrassing, especially when 당신 say to her that 당신 like her and all she does is "objection".
I have the same reaction ,so I think I can't help out. Sorry.
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It's okay! I see most of people think the same.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
katy55 said:
u'll certainly have to forgive them. u see because some pplz minds are a little perverteed and also since maybe it might hav that type of enviroment around them thats the first thing that will pop into their heads, other ppl might take it the wrong way so try to ignore it, thats just how life has become these days, 당신 hav to watch everything u say otherwise ppl will look at u differently. but anyway, just ignore it.
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Cool response. I think 당신 are right. Though, I hardly can ignore anything, but I will try. ^^
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
Sasume said:
It just goes to show 당신 that some people aren't the smartest...take no offense to that, as long as 당신 know what/who 당신 are 당신 don't have to worry about what other people think. Just make sure it doesn't get out of hand. I have plenty of girl 프렌즈 and we jokingly say stuff like that. It's like when 당신 tell your family 당신 사랑 them: it's not a romantic love, a family 사랑 :D. Yeah, I'm American and some people are jerks. But it doesn't have to do with your nationality, I don't call people gay if they're the same gender as me and say "I love/like you" because I believe in having an open mind and it just doesn't bother me. Good luck!
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Sorry about holding this all to Americans particularly, I knew I should have 게시됨 this part, even if it was one my head. And I know it doesn't have anything with nationalities. I meant that all Americans that I talked to myself thought of the same wrong way. Sorry again. ^^ And thanks for answering. I think I'm convinced now.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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I'm glad you're better now :D. It's okay, everyone makes mistakes :D and it seems that the jerks are heard 더 많이 than the ones with sense...don't 당신 agree?
Sasume posted over a year ago
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Yeah but I'm pretty sure ignorance is a learned skill.
Sasume posted over a year ago
Jeffersonian said:
For some reason people, Americans precisely (I'm American so nobody freak out) tend to jump to conclusions. That's why I never say in public that I find my 가장 좋아하는 actress cute (like a little 강아지 not in a lesbian way) because I know if certain people heard they'd take it the wrong way. I think a 인기 American phrase (or at least one I've heard) that might help 당신 is LYLAS (Love 당신 Like A Sister). Hope I'm helpful.
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Totally true. When I talk to any American I think of an American sentence that doesn't freak them out 또는 think of me the wrong way. Sorry about saying Americans though. *Blushing*.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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It gets annoying when people need 당신 to elaborate on everything in order for no conclusions to be jumped to.
Sasume posted over a year ago
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