I've 로스트 my best friend.

On tuesday both of my best 프렌즈 told me that they don't want to hang out with me anymore. Now I hang out with my other friend, but she also hangs out with her other 프렌즈 that I'm not 프렌즈 with, so I always feel akward like I don't belong. I've tried hanging out with some of my other 프렌즈 too, but I always feel akward because I feel like I don't belong anywhere.

Also, yesterday I found out that my crush likes someone else. And it's a girl a few years younger than him, they're not even in the same grade. But I can't get over him, and I really want to tell him how I feel about him, but I don't know what he'll say, and I don't want to get hurt even worse. But now there's a guy a 년 older than me that I think likes me, because he talks to me on FB and he told me I'm cute. I think he's kinda cute too, and he seems nice, so I guess I wouldn't mind dating him if he decided to ask me out, but I still have a crush on the other guy.

What should I do?

 daisylove posted over a year ago
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fly210 said:
well I can't really help 당신 that much execpt telling 당신 2 things.
1) everyone gets kicked out of the group eventualy. Just take it as a time to meet new people. most likly they will be your 프렌즈 again after a 월 at most.

2)It is prooven that the "loners" 또는 "misfits" in a school do better in their adult years then populars. So this may be good for your future.

sorry that that is all I can tell you. Hope it helps! :D

p.s. with the boyfriend thing I got no clue. just follow your heart. If 당신 do that you'll never be wrong.
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Thnx for the advice. c:
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AnimeFan66 said:
First off, I know what 당신 are going through- friendship can be 심장 breaking at times and it's hard to trust 프렌즈 when they don't know everything about 당신 또는 unless they trust 당신 with everything 당신 tell them. The best thing to do about your old 프렌즈 또는 this friend is to just stay away from them and start meeting new people. I know meeting new people and making new 프렌즈 is tough but eventually 당신 feel a lot better. As for your dating situatuions, that is for 당신 to decide- if this other guy your dating currently is looking at other girls, then it's best to tell him through and tell him that it can't work out that well (even though it will be diffcult and 심장 breaking to explain it all). This other guy 당신 should try to get to knowing him, but be carefull- 당신 never know what can happen next.
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i'm sorry if none of what i am saying is helping you, but i have been through these situations many times.
AnimeFan66 posted over a year ago
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Thnx for the advice. c:
daisylove posted over a year ago
ginger805 said:
well, this is only MY opinion but i think i, if i were u, that maybe if u still miss both of ur old 프렌즈 maybe u can talk 2 them and work thigs out with them. u can also ask out ur crush, i mean u have nothing 2 loose if he says no so wat 옮기기 but if he says yes then go for it. and about the other guy that u think he likes u and u KINDA like him back well, u can try being 프렌즈 with him.
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I've tried talking to my old friends, but they just try to avoid me & don't want to talk to me. :c
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
1) If she was ever a true friend, she wouldn't just suddenly drop you. My 'friend' did that once. She just decided that she didn't like me anymore, then the 다음 일 decided that nothing had ever happened. I confronted her, and she admitted that it was all just stupid, and could we just forget it. I like her I guess, we have a laugh together, but I know that she's not the sort of friend that I could trust. We get on, she's fun to hang out with, but that's all our friendship is. It doesn't get to the point when I feel that I could text her in the middle of the night and hear that she still wants to talk to me. I don't know, but I kind of get the feeling that that's what the friendship is between 당신 and your best friend was. Maybe, maybe not, I'm not you. But just 곰 in mind that a true friend will stick 의해 당신 no matter what, and maybe 당신 should think about who your best 프렌즈 really are.
Friendship is hard. But give things a bit longer and see how things progress. 당신 may find that these other 프렌즈 will end up being way 더 많이 trustworthy than your ex-friend ever was. It takes a while to feel like you're officially part of a group, but that's only natural. You'll get to know them, and they'll get to know you; and you'll possibly find that they're kind of 프렌즈 that 당신 always wanted, 당신 just didn't realize it till it came. In time things will work out, really. Friendship groups are always changing, everywhere, and sometimes it's for the best. Good luck.

2) I can't really give 당신 much 조언 on this one, just follow your heart.

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Thnx for the advice. c:
daisylove posted over a year ago
rapunzeleah123 said:
Don't worry.

A best "friend" told me she didn't want to be 프렌즈 with me anymore, also.
Surprisingly, I felt no sense of loss 또는 hurt, because I realized that she couldn't be a true friend if she wanted to stop being friends. You'll find someone out there who understands and likes 당신 as a person :)

About your crush.
"Crush" is the key word here. Depending on how old 당신 are, it's highly doubtful that the dating thing will last through college 또는 even high school. Besides, the crush will wear off way before that, trust me.
I would suggest asking the other guy out. Your crush will see that you've (possibly) moved on, and might let go of the other girl and go to you. If he doesn't, he ain't worth it, sweetheart.
Good luck,
--Rapunzel
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Completely agree with you, 당신 put that really well. :)
EmzLovesCheryl posted over a year ago
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Thanks :)
rapunzeleah123 posted over a year ago
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No problem :)
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Goldilottes said:
Oh hun you're in a bad situ.. </3 I was in one like that a while 이전 so i get how confused and worried 당신 feel. Its a hard situation cos of the bff thing then the crush thing. I'll start with the bff thing- I have two 'best friends' -_- that sometimes go off with eachother and leave me out too, and the only other half 프렌즈 i have i feel awkward with too.
firstly, 당신 should tell your problems to your mom, she's probably been there herself. 당신 should also talk to your so called best 프렌즈 and find out why they said that to you.. altho i think i already know- most girls don't get on in friendships of 3, so 2 of them group together so both of them are safe, and leave out the third. personally i find that pathetic, but thats what most girls are like. 당신 should tell them that 당신 have other worries too and would appreciate their support, and offer your if ever they have any problems too. let them know 당신 value their friendship, but don't be a doormat. they don't sound like good 프렌즈 to me, so if the talk is unsuccessful, then just use them like they used you. just use them to talk to in school so 당신 dont have to hang out with awkward people. -If 당신 dont want to do that and still value their friendship, then try talking to your favourite female teacher about it. there's normally always one nice teacher that likes 당신 and understands everything. 당신 should get that sorted out, but not so that the other 2 girls get told off, because that will make them dislike 당신 more.


About the boy situation, 당신 should definitely look into that. first to say, i'm not sure about either of those two boys 당신 mention. i am disappointed for 당신 that the boy 당신 like doesnt SEEM to like you, because i've been there and its the worst gutting feeling of all. especially when he likes someone else instead, that really kills. There are a few options of what 당신 can do about him. they will depend on what your frame of mind is like. If 당신 are feeling strong, ready for a risk and not ready to let your problems overtake you, then wait until 당신 are on your own with him and hint that 당신 like him. then, drop into a conversation the 질문 of if there happens to anyone he likes. he probably wouldn't say 'yeah, you.' even if he did like you, so be prepared for that. boys just arent like that unfortuantely for us :(
but before 당신 talk to him, do your homework 의해 finding out as much information as 당신 can. get talking to his 프렌즈 and yours, but don't make it too obvious 당신 like him.. this could have disastrous effect on 당신 if it all goes wrong and it turns out ha has no feelings for 당신 whatsoever. (i think he probably has a little bit, cos otherwise 당신 wouldnt have liked him in the first place.)
also, get talking to the girl he supposedly likes and find out if its true and if she likes him too. again, don't be obvious.

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But as soon as it becomes obvious that it isnt going to work, take a step back from him, and wait for things to blow over. 당신 never know, he might start liking you. but only if 당신 make yourself likeable.
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As for the other guy, 당신 shouldn't automatically choose him just because he likes you- there has to be a spark. I can tell 의해 they way 당신 write about him that 당신 aren't 100% sure 당신 like him, which is no good. BUT, if 당신 got to know him better, 당신 may like him. I think it is probably mostly because 당신 are so pre-occupied 의해 your crush on the other guy that 당신 don't really notice the one who likes you. he might turn out to be amazing.
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Its ok, i hope its not too long :)
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alismouha said:
Who else didn't bother to read all of that?
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