If u were a parent would 당신 want your daughter/son dating in middle school/high school?

I think that parents controlling how their kids 날짜 is unreasonable. I think that dating should be the choice of the child, not the parents. Especially when it comes to teenagers because most people become interested in relationships and dating in their teens, and that's when they learn about such things.

as long as i knew who the person was and what they were doing at all times. They would kind of having me tagging along.

I know people that started dating in 3rd 또는 4th grade.

Your parents are mad and selfish.
Your life is too short to wait until after college.

What will affect your school work is if 당신 find someone 당신 사랑 but can't openyl 날짜 them, so 당신 have to either do it in secret 또는 not at all which will really play on your mind and bring 당신 down. trust me, when you're in 사랑 truly then not hell 또는 high water will stop 당신 wanting to be in love, and whether your parents like it 또는 not, thats a fact of teenage reality and its something theyre going to have to deal with.
what if 당신 meet the right person soon, but listen to your parents and pass 의해 the opportunity? i mean, wtf that would suck. they were in 사랑 once too. all our parents were.

The answer to your 질문 is that 당신 are ready to 날짜 when 당신 are in 사랑 and 당신 feel mature enough to handle it. afterall, your parents don't know every aspect of your personal life so how will they know if 당신 are keeping it from them.

My 조언 to 당신 would be that 당신 should wait until you're genuinely in 사랑 (you'll know it when it comes- it'll hit 당신 like a train) then 당신 should start getting into talks with your parents about how 당신 would prefer not to live this secret life just so they can see everything through rose-colored glasses in their deluded world, when really they're putting their own daughter in danger 의해 not letting 당신 be open with them.

Although i can see they only want the best for you, the 더 많이 your parents try to restrain 당신 the 더 많이 you'll want to break free and rebel, so what theyre doing is wrong.

The truth is, teenagers 날짜 whether their parents like it 또는 not. the key is that the LUCKY teens are the ones whose parents accept and respect that.

My parents said I couldn't 날짜 until I was sixteen, which is pretty reasonable. If they don't regulate, you've got these junior high kids talking about who they slept with, for crying out loud they're too young for sex.

As long as 당신 keep up with your schoolwork and maintain a healthy relationship with your parents, go for it. Ew, now i sound like a parent.
Just go for it.

Not to 질문 your parents' authority but when 당신 go to college, you'll be eighteen, a legal adult. 당신 could do what 당신 want then.

Your 프로필 says your thirteen. Your still in middle school, right? Just focus on your school work now and discuss dating when 당신 get older. Your to young to be thinking about that stuff right now, it just makes everything 더 많이 complicated. Trust me. Just enjoy being young while 당신 still can.

Your parents just probably have your best interest at 심장 right now. If 당신 talk to them and explain that 당신 want to date, they may let you. Have a mature heart-to-heart conversation with them. If they won't, it's okay. It's not the end of the world. You'll have 더 많이 chances in the future :)

yeah, i'd let them.

i would say a 'serious' dating relashionship should start in about 7th grade 또는 around that...
idk.

My kids would have to wait to get married after collage but I'd let them 날짜 in late middle school early high school

As a parent I find this highly unreasonable.I allowed my children to go on group dates as young as 13.I allowed my children to 날짜 at 15.Kids need social interaction with peers as well as recreation time.
As long as 당신 are 연기 responsibly and don't engage in sex,I think 당신 should be able to date.

It depends if the r going to fast in there dating if it's to were they are laying on tube of each ather I would not light my son 또는 daughter dat because that is over to fare.but if they r just huging and 키싱 I am ok with that.so middle school my mom is lighting me dat in middle now so I would be ok with that.