ok, so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We went out for one week at first because of a rumor about me cheating on him. Then, weeks later we got back together because he found out it was a lie. So we went out for three weeks. during those three week people was lieing about me to break us up be zak (the boyfriend) didn't believe them. Then this dude James (sonicTH111) threatened that if i dont have s*x with him, he would lie to zak say i cheated on him. he would ruin my whole life and eventually i would kill myself. Stupid of me, i didn't listen. two weeks later, he made a fake "conversation" that said that i did have s*x with him. he sent it to some people and it spread everywhere. when it got to zak, he believed it and he broke up with me. he said this time its perminant. it didnt matter how much i told him i didn't do anything, he wouldn't believe me; he would just say "right" 또는 "sure" it broke my 심장 because i was commited for a crime i didn't do. So today, (if i haven't already say this, we broke up yesturday [2/24/11]) we got back into another fight about the rumor. I was almost there getting him to see the proof that i was innocent, when his Gemerman ex girlfriend gonna barge in and ask for another chance. and i dont understand why he got back together because he broke his 심장 BAD. she feel in 사랑 with another guy while they were dating (the first time) then SHE broke up with HIM and then she had s*x with james. so im so confused. PLUS she talked trash about him. she said he was "stupid" and "dumb" and "oh i should have never gone out with him because i didnt realize how stupid he was"
So now im on the ege of killing myself, becuz i have have 7 ex boyfriends and have had like 10 broken hearts. so now i dont know what to do anymore. I loved zak (and still do) with all my everything, and he got taken away from me 의해 a perv and a whore. so now i dont know what to do anymore. so i need some advice!
Alright. Whenever I hear a girl say something like, "I 사랑 him so much! I can't live without him!" 또는 "I will kill myself since he's out of my life!", it makes me want to smash my head against a brick 벽 over and over. And if not that, take her head and smash it over and over.
Why? Two reasons;
1) It's simply the biggest crock of bullshit I'll ever out of a teenage girl's mouth.
2) I've been through that too. And to this day, it's an ugly story for me.
To summarize briefly; I met this boy, Andrew (temporary name) at a 일 Camp during the summer when I was nine-years-old (Yes, nine). Andrew was a great kid to me, we did a lot of fun things together and (I'm assuming) enjoyed each other's company. Andrew was a pretty funny guy to me, and was almost always fun to be around. :) Eventually, a 년 later when we were at summer camp again, I grew a deep crush on him. But I never told him out of fear of how he'd react (Maturity was not really his best aspect, yet he was, like most of us, just a child back then). Well, our friendship lasted until fifth grade. To briefly summarize that mess; Rumor spread about Andrew, Andrew was upset, a friend of his blamed me, Andrew believed him (I'm assuming it was a guy I know of), Andrew had a guidance counselor talk to me & confronted me a few times, I told the truth and said it wasn't me, he didn't believe me. And we stopped being 프렌즈 after the fifth grade. Then there was summer camp. And this is one of the reasons why I don't give my 심장 to people easily; According to others, he said the following; I'm ugly, I'm weird, I'm really rude, I have staring problems, I got him into detention, he hated me etc. And he and another girlfriend of his made fun of my lazy eye all summer according to a friend of mine. A guy I had a crush on at that very time was saying and doing all of this. Pleasant, I know :)
But, one of the dumbest things I'll ever think of doing was this; Committing suicide. All because of Andrew. -_-
Mainly because, Why end your life over a dumb boy? No, why give up the life you've never even lived yet over a dumb boy? Obviously, if he's walking away from you, whatever he said about being a true friend 또는 boyfriend to 당신 was false. To me, a boyfriend will treat 당신 like that because of a stupid rumor and then go to another girl didn't care that much about 당신 to begin with, if not at all. What is there to sacrifice your life for?
My advice? Don't give up living, because it's not worth it. I learned that about Andrew, myself, and my life later on, and I'm always feeling fortunate at some extent that I did. I have so many pretty cool people (although I don't really see them), and so many opportunities to gain a pretty damn good future for myself. :)
And guess what? 당신 do too. :)
당신 have to 옮기기 on if 당신 must. It may feel like 또는 possibly even be the hardest thing 당신 can go through. But eventually, it's the right thing to do.
Alright. Listen. I've recently been heartbroken too, I know how 당신 feel...but it's a boy. A Boy. B-o-y. Boy. Boy.(n) Living being who screws around with girl's hearts because they know we don't want to lose them. Also, a living being which 당신 should not kill yourself over.
7 exes? You.Have.No.Idea. A boy is a stupid reason to be on the urge of suicide. Plus, I really doubt 당신 could go through with it. Wanna talk it out? Message me. Just remember to breathe.
dont kill ur self over a guy. i know u 사랑 him, but just dont...... think about ur 프렌즈 and family..... how would they fell if u killed ur self. its okay. if u want to talk to me...... im all ears..... dont worry.... time will heal all of ur wounds. again u can talk to me:)
All i have to say is 신고 the guy who made u break up (James). If u want, ill also 신고 him 2, okay. If he messes with one girl, its like he messes with all of us! 당신 can talk to any girl and tell them whats wrong and they will help 당신 through it.
1) Well your 프로필 says your 13...so that's a little young to be having sex... 2) 7 ex boyfriends...how long do your relationships normally last?? -_- 3) Don't kill yourself over a guy... 4) Take a break from guys for a while... relax women...lol
psh!please! instead of mourning,you SHOULD be kinda mad.After all,a GOOD bf would NEVER believe sum like that and if you're so extremely upset he should be able to see it.i say 4gt him, you've got enuf on your hands.Worry about school,you know...the place that actually helps 당신 in the future...besides,I'm sure a cool kid,you find some1 soon enuf un
please don't hurt your self it's not worth it trust me 당신 are better and smarter then the people who did that to 당신 don't let theme get to 당신 and just don't hurt your self if 당신 need help heres an spot on this site it can help 당신 maybe some one can help 당신 here link
U serious u gonna kill ur self over a stupid boy? dude, u havent even started ur life yet and u plan 2 end it? NO! Im sorry that 당신 hzve been threw all that crap but still... NO COMMITING SUICIDE!!!!!!
Don't kill yourself, please don't. OKkthis guy 당신 really are in 사랑 with right? Well this James dude sounds like an Asshole. A serious straight up a-hole. And tell Zak that 당신 ARE telling the truth and demand for James to tell Zak the truth. If 당신 really are in 사랑 with Zak and 당신 are made to be then things will turn out alright in the end 또는 maybe there is supposed to be another guy your supposed to end up with, who knows? But for now all 당신 have to do is keep living. Don't let it steal your joy. And no matter how bad life gets just remember, in the end, things will be alright.
Omg that is veary badd how could James do that I hope 당신 happy again Zak migt know your telling the trufe soon an 당신 get back togater maybe 당신 havea not fond your sole mate yeta 당신 will don't kill your self he is not wort that
Okay, while I do have some sympathy for you, that's a stupid reason to kill yourself. He's a frickin 13, 14 년 old BOY. 당신 have a ton of life left. He's obviously not worth the trouble. LET HIM GO, 당신 moron. Sorry for calling 당신 a moron. Seriously, you're, what, 13? Ugh, I guess I have anger issues. Seriously, though, I mean what I say. 7 boyfriends at 13? Wow.