As you all probably know, Mary has a boyfriend. She told me that they break up then make up... They argue a lot,. and now I don't know what fight they had, but it made Mary leave. She says it's better this way. And then she said that it's better for her too... Well I won't stop her is it's what she wants. I want what's the best for her! But I'm terribly sad and and couldn't help but cry. But also, no matter how long or where she goes, she's always with us in our hearts. She's never gone. Let's just cheer for her and wish her the best. And in hopes things will work out and she'll come back! We all love you Mary and wish you the bets!

It still doesn't make any sense! Did they argue here on Fanpop or what? What does it have with being a fanpoper to do anyway?!

Yeah, they argued on Fanpop. I thought the same too, I told her it was crazy. If you wanna know how and stuff then I'm gonna put the whole chat here, if anyone;s interested.

I wrote to her:
"Sis! C'mon! How is you coming here will hurt him???!!! Can you just please answer that??!! Do you like making your friends worried and upset??!!! And also is this bf of yours only in Fanpop? So he isn't your bf in real life? Sis.... How can you fall for someone you don't really know? What if he's fake? By that I mean what if he just pretends to be like that, what if it's not his real personality??? Sis, you're 16... And you still fall for someone on the internet?! I think it's really time for you to look for a bf in REAL LIFE!! Falling for someone on the internet means you have NO LIFE! You're not like that sis! You're smarter, you're better than that! I don't believe you LOVE him because LOVE is a very strong thing. It's very different from what you feel for him right now! Maybe you just like him in a guy and enjoy his company, same with him. But you can't be bf and gf on internet forever! It will only ruin your chance in real life! Life is much more important than that, you have to finish school, to get a job, to get a house, to make a family, to have a life!!! Imagine yourself when you're 37 still living with your parents, no job, no friends, just sitting online... Would you like your life to be like that? If no, then stop this madness! Don't fall for guys on the internet!!! Please, find a REAL boyfriend or something! I only want what's best for you. I want for you to be happy. And these kinds of things will only make you unhappy! He is not your boyfriend because you don't know each other in real life! It's just a child's play sis... Don't do this anymore! You and him should find someone you truly love, and that is in real life! You don't "love" each other, you only enjoy each other company. So please stop it before it's too late!"

Then she only replied:
"Sis...don't worry!
I am better with not coming here!
I will come when...I don't know maybe never again or maybe....when I feel like it! =/"

Then I wrote another message to her:
"Are you serious??? Did you even read what I told you???!! OMG... You talk like someone is dying... Why can't you tell me the problem? I really don't see how some boyfriend on the interned is a problem! You don't know him in real life, for crying out loud sis!!! You can't be THAT upset! What you feel for him is far from love! Maybe you just like him in a guy, you know. Please just stop this nonsense!!! Is that REALLY the problem???!?!?! <:"("

Then her "boyfriend" commented on it:
"some one is pain at the balls but i wont say who -_-"

And we started talking, discussing and probably arguing.

I would put up the whole chat but for some stupid reason I can't see the comments (our chat) on my wall post anymore... When I click on it the page goes blank and it's "loading"... But it didn't load for about 20 min. So if you're interested you can find our chat somewhere in Mary's wall. Here's the ling (But if other fan wall post's will spam it, go to the next page):
link

So yeah, you'll get your answers there... (The answer to the question "What does it have with being a fanpoper to do anyway?!".

It's terrible...

SHE'S BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!! =D

Aha ;)

I'm so happy she's back!!! I would miss her terrible!! Ps. But if its sick that you have a boyfriend here, isn't it sick to that you have friends here? Pss. Sorry for the stupid question.......

I didn't say it's "sick". It just isn't normal. If you want answers then read my comment. The looong one. I explained it. I mean do you have any idea what a boyfriend is? He isn't some guy who she can count on to just give advice and have fun talking with (like with friends). I don't really know how to say it, but what about their first kiss? Also it's keeping Mary and him from things in real life. I mean, when time comes, they'll have to leave Fanpop or any other website for other things. For work and stuff... They won't be able to have a good life, a family, because they only know each other online! So what, they'll have to sit online for the rest of their lives so they could hear from each other? How is it fun when you fall in love and can't touch, see each otehr, kiss. Well actually, in my opinion, that IS sick! And what about their parents, they will be worried that their son/daughter haven't found their soulmate for so long! But little would they know that their son/daughter fell in love with someone he/she only knows online. Just think it up.

Friends, is another story. You came here to get along, to make friends. When you grow up, it's easier to just leave your friends and meet with them rarely, but it's harder to stay away from your lover... Well I'm not gonna talk about THIS right now, lol. I think you understood enough. :)

So that's why it isn't normal for to have a boyfriend/girlfriend online. But Mary and vagos is yet another story. I kinda see how they 2 are willing to do things for each other, they WANT TO meet, so it's up to them.