please help. my friend and i are fighting over a guy we both like and he likes both of us too. what do i do?

 lilys_love_12 posted over a year ago
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crazykitteh said:
Okay, if some guy is better than your best friend FOREVER, than obviously your "bff" realy isn't your bff. Your bff should always comes first. Your bff should be like a sister not a person 당신 fight with, she isn't your enemy, is she?

If 당신 fight constantally over him, apperantlly 당신 would rather have somebody who you'll maybe spend a 년 또는 two with and after that, 당신 most likely won't have your BFF.

Rember love

Life has chances.
Only forgive.
Varities of good things come to the good.
Everyone deserves a good BFF.
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posted over a year ago 
FlightofFantasy said:
Bros before hos, man. 또는 in this case, girls before guys. A guy's no reason to break up a friendship.
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posted over a year ago 
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yes i know this but this fight was bad and i 사랑 this guy and idk.. i mean it was not a mouth fight it was hiting. i almost killed my bff over a guy that i love! i had him fight and then she comes and tries to take him from me. it makes me so mad
lilys_love_12 posted over a year ago
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exactly, me and my friend liked the same guy and we jsut promiced eachotehr that it would break us up as sister bffs and we are still REALLY close 프렌즈 today!!!!!!
lolibarbie posted over a year ago
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I agree with summerlynn1978 and crazykitteh
KnougeChick posted over a year ago
Alexander_Rybak said:
Friendship is much 더 많이 important then a boy!

의해 the way I think he is not a good person cuz he loves both of you!
Don't lose 프렌즈 cuz of a boy
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posted over a year ago 
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tou are totally right sasusaku-fan
summerlynn1978 posted over a year ago
sasusaku-fan said:
If 당신 are hitting your friend that is really bad.
And in this kind of fight 당신 always pick your friend before a guy because most likely 당신 will break up with this guy in some months and 당신 wont have a bff. so tell me is a boyfriend for afew months better than a bff forever?
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posted over a year ago 
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well this guy and i dated befor and he asked me to marry him and thats what made me brake up with him bcuz i ddnt know what to think of it and now we want to got back with echother but my "friend" is pulling us apart. i rele so 사랑 him. he means alot to me. and she triped me today in the hall @school and i just keeped walking then she ran and jumped on me and errg lol.
lilys_love_12 posted over a year ago
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I say 당신 should go up to this boy with your bff and settle this immediatly.
hidan_akatsuki posted over a year ago
arianaggs said:
i guess we maybe been there but i had it much esayer then 당신 i well went go with him and then best friend went go with him but i didn't 사랑 him

당신 have to talk with your friend talk it out, if 당신 say 당신 사랑 him and want to go out with him 당신 should talk with your friend and even do 당신 know how she feels about him?
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posted over a year ago 
Twilight_Dream said:
well i see it this way, its either the guy 또는 the friend. 당신 cant have both and everything be fine and dandy. and if the guy likes both of you, what makes 당신 so sure that he wouldnt cheat on one of 당신 with the other? i think the guys isnt worth it.
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posted over a year ago 
Alexina123 said:
Wait, he asked 당신 to marry him and you're only at school? 당신 must be like 16 또는 under? Obviously he was joking about the marriage then! Seriously, if he really loved 당신 he wouldn't let 당신 fight with your best friend. Chances are you're gonna break up with him sooner 또는 later and then 당신 won't have a best friend. I would ALWAYS choose my best friend over some boy I like/love 또는 whatever. That's what true 프렌즈 do. Sit down with your friend and talk about it. Stop all this fighting because it's getting 당신 no where at all. I've got a boyfriend at the moment and as much as I 사랑 him if he started to do all this stuff like fancy my best friend then I wouldn't put up with it...No matter how much I like him. I 사랑 my best friend so I would definitely choose her. The reason she's probably fighting back as well is because she's obviously mad, I can't blame her for being mad! But ask yourself, do 당신 really wanna loose your best friend? You've probably known them longer than this boy. So, really, choose carefully 또는 you'll be about to loose someone really special to you.
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posted over a year ago 
Lizzy-ILoveJB said:
U shouldn't let guy ruin yr friendship! If u really like the guy, talk to yr friend! If she's so upset, c 괭이 that guy likes, you, 또는 yr friend! Problem sollved!!!!
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posted over a year ago 
lilhardgirl said:
he sould pick one of yall. if he picks u she need to understand n if he picks her u need to understand to be there for eachother ok
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posted over a year ago 
babyV101 said:
well it depends on how much 당신 like the guy and how much 당신 wanna keep 당신 freindship
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posted over a year ago 
mrsbieber19 said:
talk to your friend and talk to that guy
youll figure it out

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posted over a year ago 
smacfan13 said:
Either have a contest to see who he likes 더 많이 또는 don't even bother with him.You shouldn't let a guy come in between a good freindshp.
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posted over a year ago 
meyouus2 said:
Me an my best friend have been fighting over a boy here resently.
And i suggest that 당신 guys just need to promise to eac other that 당신 to are 더 많이 important then any boy could ever be.

And good luck! <3
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posted over a year ago 
Gokussj173 said:
If 당신 truly want to get this guy, just work on it. And never give up. Its totally up to him, whom will he choose. And as for your friend, if she's your true friend, she'll not oppose 당신 but will try to get this guy being honest and she'll not kill the friendship. If she's not, then get ready to handle a real bitch! But in the end, its totally up to the boy...
AND 당신 also need to see if the guy's good 또는 not! 당신 can't fight with your friend for an asshole!
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