What do I do?

I'm a freshman in high school and I've had a crush on this guy since September and since then we have become friendly with each other but not close friends, 더 많이 like acquaintances. Anyway, I've found out recently that he kind of knows I like him. We haven't spoken since I became aware of this which was about three weeks 이전 and now I feel really awkward and self conscious around him. Before he knew I asked one of my 프렌즈 who is one of his close 프렌즈 to ask him if he liked me. She told me that he said no. I don't want to give up on him that easily though because I feel like he just doesn't know me well enough to know whether he likes me 또는 not because I'm shy and not very talkative and I think he's a really good guy and could learn to like me if he got to know me better. So now I'm scared to talk to him but at the same time I want to talk to him 더 많이 and try to get him to like me. It would mean a lot to me if 당신 could give me some good 조언 on what to do in a situation like this. like how to not be so nervous around him and what kind of things to say to him. thanks!
 Musiquelover posted over a year ago
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xenriquegrl said:
I am exactly like you! I am also a very shy person but I'm gonna share with 당신 the tricks and knacks I've learned on how to just get over it.

First of all, 당신 know that he knows but the worst thing 당신 can do is to just stop talking to him. 당신 say 당신 wanna talk to him, so, as much as 당신 don't want to see this, just talk to him. Not about the fact that 당신 like him but just about 랜덤 stuff. Be yourself, get to know what he likes and see if 당신 two have things in common.

The best way 당신 can start 의해 talking to him is to casually say hi at school and if he's in any of your classes just ask an how are you? And 당신 don't have to say anymore than that. That way 당신 seem open and friendly. If your too shy to say hi, try to smile. A casual smile. Guys go for girls who seem friendly no matter what 당신 look like (although I bet your very beautiful duh). The fact is because your 연기 kinda cold, it sends a wrong vibe to him. 당신 shouldn't be ashamed that he knows. It might actually be flattering to him ;)

당신 need confidence too. A great way to get started with that is 의해 making sure 당신 have great 프렌즈 who support 당신 and make 당신 laugh and feel good. Hold your chin up, even if he don't like 당신 now, doesn't mean he won't in the futur. Ask your 프렌즈 to accompany 당신 to ask him to chill with a group, great way to get to know someone! Your with your 프렌즈 so 당신 feel confident, and it makes things less awkward. Just as long as 당신 start 의해 being 프렌즈 and don't get your hopes too too up cuz there are a lot of 물고기 in the sea and your still a freshman so girl, 당신 got plenty of time!

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posted over a year ago 
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Thank 당신 so much! 당신 made my day. At first I was thinking if he ever asked me about it I would deny everything haha, but u have a good point in saying that he may actually be flattered so I will try what 당신 said. Thanks a lot :)
Musiquelover posted over a year ago
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저기요 your welcome ;) tell me how it went!!!
xenriquegrl posted over a year ago
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또는 how it goes sorry haha
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