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LifeAsC said:
I'm actually in the same situation, and it really hurts, I get it. My crush is annoyed 의해 me too, and the biggest mistake 당신 could make is pushing those bounderies. The 조언 "there are other 물고기 in the sea" irritates me - because how can a person like 당신 if the both of 당신 haven't even gotten to know each other? So, here's my whole hearted advice:
Give him space. Let him know that 당신 are your own person and that he isn't a huge significance involved in your life. Don't bother to let him drag 당신 down, that'll just cause him to be even 더 많이 annoyed, and 당신 to be even 더 많이 obsessed with the idea of the two of 당신 together. However, whenever he sees you, make eye contact. Short but not too short, keep the contact for about 2-3 초 and look away with a small smile (that's pretty much a given though). He'll know that you're interested, but just don't harass him with it. If being "annoying" is a trait of yours, embrace it. It's a flaw that many people have and struggle with, but if your crush actually gets to know you, and sees your good qualities, he may start to actually like you...and 의해 that time he'll accept 당신 for who 당신 are. But if he finally gets to know you, and still doesn't like 당신 for who 당신 are, he's not worth anymore of your time. (That's and IF though)
General advice: just get to know him, let a bit of time pass to clear the tension between the two of you. However, keep sending signals that you're still interested, for example eye contact. (Also, think before 당신 act upon your words when 당신 speak to him.)
I really hope it works out, but if not, just remember that the situation is what 당신 make of it. 옮기기 on, improve yourself and live to your potential as a valued human being. Don't let one "crush" hurt you, turn it into a lesson and know that one 일 there will be someone willing to 사랑 you, flaws and all.
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