my situation gets better, then worse PLEASE HELP!!!!

I think your 프렌즈 meant well, but they didn't go about things the right way. They literally threw 당신 into the spotlight instead of slowly easing 당신 into it. Guys get taken aback when things are suddenly sprung onto them, it might seem difficult but I know how to fix this.

당신 have to use something that many people these days lack and that is sincerity. The 다음 time he talks to 당신 또는 당신 talk to him, don't get all emotional and trying to defend yourself because right now, what is important isn't what they did, but letting this guy actually see what an amazing girl 당신 are.

So when he talks to 당신 tell him this. Tell him that 당신 are sorry things turned out the way they did and it wasn't your intention at all, tell him that 당신 just want to get to know him better (don't confess your feelings), also tell him that he means a lot to 당신 and 당신 don't want things to be awkward, and even though it isn't your fault, tell him 당신 want to make it up to him (you can use this as an opening to take him out ;) ).

Don't listen to what your 프렌즈 are saying for the moment, because until 당신 hear a yes 또는 a maybe from him, 당신 are kinda stuck with this, take it from me, sincerity goes a long way. I have this feeling he is mean to 당신 because he likes 당신 but he is just unsure of how to bring himself to tell it to you.

This is why I say sincerity is a powerful weapon. If 당신 talk to him face-to-face and tell him what I told 당신 just now, he would see how badly it affected 당신 and he would try to cheer 당신 up. Another thing that would happen, would also be him opening up to 당신 as well, it's a give and take sorta thing.

So dear, do not fret, this can be fixed and 당신 did not ruin anything. 사랑 has many paths and many turns, just because one path is blocked, that is 의해 no means a sign to give up. If 당신 can't find a path, then make one yourself, just like how i told you. Be sincere, speak from the heart, and above all else, show him that 당신 are someone special :)

I wish 당신 all the best and if 당신 ever need 더 많이 advice, 당신 can always look for me personally :)