Is it wrong?

When somebody's fancying me 또는 try to ask me on 날짜 I feel an awful discomfort. Not just because I can't see anyone as my boyfriend - It's about dating.
I never had a boyfriend, and I want to TRY kisses, making out, maybe sex - but without being a couple with someone. And without being in love, just simple attraction.
Am I a whore?
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people r just the way they r.
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Dearheart said:
I believe the 질문 isn't "Am I a whore?" The real 질문 is, "How much of myself am I willing to give away?"

Don't condemn yourself for wanting to experiment with that kind of stuff. As humans, we all have that itching curiosity; that impulse to explore, to experiment, to try things out...even when we know it may not be smart. And 당신 don't have to be in 사랑 to date, in my opinion. For me personally, I'd prefer to not 날짜 또는 키스 anyone without seriously thinking it over first, but everyone has different convictions and different comfort zones.

However, you need to be mindful of the cost of "trying things out." I've found that the 더 많이 당신 give away on a whim 또는 to the wrong person, the 더 많이 it hurts later and the 더 많이 regret you'll have. When 당신 play with matches, chances are you'll get burned...badly burned.

Think of it this way...the 더 많이 pieces of your 심장 (or body) 당신 give away, the less you'll have to give to your future Prince Charming. And the closer 당신 attach yourself to someone, emotionally 또는 physically, the 더 많이 it will hurt if 당신 wind up splitting up. I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm being preachy; 당신 don't have to listen to a word I say if 당신 don't want to. I just don't want to see any 더 많이 girls in my generation needlessly getting hurt.

In a nutshell, my 조언 is this: Be aware and proud of who 당신 are. Never sell yourself short 또는 give yourself away to someone who doesn't deserve you. 의해 all means, have fun, enjoy life and try new things...but at the same time, be careful. If 당신 don't want to get burned, don't "play with the matches" until 당신 are old enough and wise enough to know how to handle fire. It's better to be 안전한, 안전 than sorry. Don't 키스 so many frogs that 당신 miss the prince. ;-)

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that is absolutely perfect advise!
daddiesgirl posted over a year ago
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Thank 당신 so much! =)
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jessica101 said:
No 당신 are not 당신 just want to 날짜 당신 don't have to be in 사랑 right away if 당신 are dateing someone 키싱 또는 even haveing sex it just means that 당신 are not ready to be in 사랑 so 당신 are not a whore.
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MrsPattinsonXO said:
Ummmmmmmmmmm no.
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felicity1111 said:
u should 날짜 cause no guy will do that stuff not with his girlfriend
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