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My bf is moving to Manitoba this summer. What should I do?

We have been dating 4 months now and are so deeply in love. We would do anything for each other and are so close. Im in grade 11 and hes in grade 12. he wants me to 옮기기 to Manitoba and live with him once im 18. but the distance is what is so hard. we live a 2 시간 drive apart now, and our relationship is hard enough now let alone him going to manitoba with his family. what should I do?
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also, im scared he will find a different girl and dump me when he goes to Manitoba...
emmazurb posted over a year ago
 emmazurb posted over a year ago
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NCISLuverjk93 said:
If you're truly in love, and are willing to do anything to make it work, it can. Long distance is really, -really- difficult.. but if 당신 both put in the effort 당신 can make your relationship strong enough to endure the distance, and pretty much anything.

There are ways to make it a little easier, Skype/webcamming, texting, emailing, socialnetworking, talking on the phone, sending letters, and if possible, visiting eachother.

And having the fear that they'll find someone else is pretty natural, at least I think so. I'm always afraid my LDG will find someone better and just forget about me, but then again I have faith she won't, because I know what I mean to her, and how much she loves me. I also trust her 100%. And 당신 have to trust your boyfriend too.

Before 당신 decide to go long distance, 당신 really have to talk about it and make sure that you're both positive this is what 당신 want. LDR's aren't for the faint of heart, trust me. If 당신 aren't seriously dedicated it's not going to work out, and you're just wasting your time.

If 당신 are though, then I wish 당신 both the best of luck!
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