Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay 또는 bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors 또는 feelings they have make them gay 또는 bi.
But really, asking other people to tell 당신 whether 또는 not 당신 are gay 또는 straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what 당신 do every day. It's up to 당신 to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves 당신 feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered 의해 you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who 당신 are. Don't let anyone convince 당신 that 당신 should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on 당신 and tell 당신 who 당신 are! Only 당신 know how 당신 feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, 또는 anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay 또는 straight. Many struggle with it for years 또는 even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled 또는 are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, 의해 no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this 기사 has helped 당신 discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who 당신 are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, 또는 anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell 당신 whether 또는 not 당신 are gay 또는 straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what 당신 do every day. It's up to 당신 to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves 당신 feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered 의해 you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who 당신 are. Don't let anyone convince 당신 that 당신 should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on 당신 and tell 당신 who 당신 are! Only 당신 know how 당신 feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, 또는 anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay 또는 straight. Many struggle with it for years 또는 even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled 또는 are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, 의해 no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this 기사 has helped 당신 discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who 당신 are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, 또는 anything else!
Reasons to Choose to Become Gay:
1.) To become rejected 의해 society.
2.) To have multiple groups against myself.
3.) To raise risks of being physically harmed.
4.) To raise risks of being mentally harmed.
5.) To have less rights in the states.
6.) To risk loosing family support.
7.) To risk loosing friends.
8.) To risk loosing chances at good jobs.
9.) To get flamed for being a flamer.
10.) To be a large target for rude jokes.
11.) To be described as 동물 to others.
12.) To be talked about as things among the law.
13.) To raise my chance of being lead toward suicide.
14.) To lose my chance at a rightful marriage.
15.) To hide myself from everyone else.
WHO WOULDN'T WANT ALL THAT! (:
Who would CHOOSE this!?
Being GAY is NOT a CHOICE.
1.) To become rejected 의해 society.
2.) To have multiple groups against myself.
3.) To raise risks of being physically harmed.
4.) To raise risks of being mentally harmed.
5.) To have less rights in the states.
6.) To risk loosing family support.
7.) To risk loosing friends.
8.) To risk loosing chances at good jobs.
9.) To get flamed for being a flamer.
10.) To be a large target for rude jokes.
11.) To be described as 동물 to others.
12.) To be talked about as things among the law.
13.) To raise my chance of being lead toward suicide.
14.) To lose my chance at a rightful marriage.
15.) To hide myself from everyone else.
WHO WOULDN'T WANT ALL THAT! (:
Who would CHOOSE this!?
Being GAY is NOT a CHOICE.
