I'm confused about delena haters

If 당신 are fairly new to the fandom and have never read the 책 then it's possible that 당신 will never have heard of Bamon (Bonnie and Damon). Bamon does exist, but it depends on where 당신 look. As for any 'DE hate', again, it depends on where 당신 look. Unfortunately, it has happened on our spot 의해 people who have kind of stirred up trouble 의해 posting comments/arguments which have just rubbed DE shippers up the wrong way. I'm sorry if some of the 팬 here come across as defensive. Most of us want to avoid shipper wars, but often, any slanging matches that have happened have been caused 의해 negative 코멘트 from non-DE 팬 또는 multi shippers. We just really, really 사랑 DE, and in spite of having the biggest numbers of fans, we feel like the underdog a lot of the time. Why? Well, because SE are always in 사랑 and together, and a lot of the book 팬 are hurt and betrayed 의해 spoilers from LJ Smith's soon to be released 'Midnight'. But DE haters do exist out there. I think you're lucky to have only encountered DE love!

I am not a Delena hater, I'm not, I 사랑 Damon and Elena together. I just hate the argument that "delena is going to happen eventually". I am sorry but that is just a crappy argument. I agree with Delena 연인들 who say 'in this and this episode 당신 can see that Elena does care for Damon etc etc and therefore we think that Delena will happen". THAT I can buy, but not some kind of destiny argument, cause I think that just sucks, it's not even a real argument.
Another thing is that some Delena 연인들 like epicdelena4ever automatically say that non Delena 연인들 are pathetic, that does not exactly make me 사랑 Delena more, 더 많이 the opposite effect.

people hate demean because they have gotten attached to stefan and elana being together. I think this is reasonable because demean sucks