Credit to _lina_ and cinders, because they did it first. 더 많이 credit to link because that's where this is from. _lina_ used the same one.


Number 1: Someone tells 당신 또는 he admits that he has hit women in the past. He has talked about his killing sprees, he has killed another woman (Yes, she is a vampire. Who cares?) in front of her. Check!

Number 2: He refers to all women he has dated in the past with derogatory terms. He may also refer to his mother using such terms as well. Not sure about checking this one 또는 not. He says she is the first one he dated, but then he talks of Tanya, the denali vampire, in a way that implies he doesn't like her at all. Half check.

Number 3: He tells 당신 of abuse he has witnessed 또는 has been a part of toward women. When asked if he has ever sought counseling, he says, "No, I never felt I needed it." He may feel guilty about it and promise that he won't do it to you. He constantly talks about killing her, but later on he starts saying he could never do it to her. This is something he also does in the opposite way, saying he knows he could kill her. Eh, check!

Finds fault with all your family and 프렌즈 once 당신 have confided in him about them 또는 he has met them. Later, he will use what he knows against 당신 in an argument. There is a part in the Twilight series, I'm pretty sure it was Eclipse, that Bella talks to edward about not wanting to talk to charlie about going to Florida. Edward then goes ahead and tells charlie about it. Half check. if 당신 want to 코멘트 and tell me why it shouldn't be here, 또는 should be a full check, please do.

Number 4:Shows up unannounced at your job, home, 또는 places 당신 visit (may lead to stalking). May offer to take 당신 to any of these places on a daily basis so that 당신 may grow dependent on him. Hmmmmm.... Seriously. He breaks into her room at night and watches her sleep. He also drives her everywhere, even when she blatantly refuses. Major check!

Number 5: Calls 당신 often wanting to know your plans and in some cases 당신 may have already told him, but he may be checking to see if your story has changed. He expects 당신 to call him wherever 당신 go and will become angry if 당신 don't. Moments in breaking Dawn come to mind. Ditto with Eclipse. The 초 part (He expects 당신 to...) is probably 더 많이 fitting then the first, but it still works. Check!

Number 6: He doesn't like who he is and makes regular references about himself as being "stupid," "ugly," "dumb," and asks you, "Why do 당신 want to be with me?" He will also resort to name calling whether he is arguing with 당신 또는 "just being funny." _lina_ nailed this on the head. If 당신 exchange "stupid", "ugly", and "dumb" for "murderer", "monster," and "killer", it works perfectly. The "Why do 당신 want to be with me?" explains itself.

Number 7: He attempts to control money 당신 have earned and abuses possessions that 당신 have acquired. He often asks for financial assistance, takes over your car and tells 당신 how 당신 should conduct your household. He may encourage 당신 to live with him so that he can further control you. A bit skeptical about this one. He doesn't ask for financial assistance 또는 how to conduct her householf. However, he does buy her a new car and expects her to use it. Plus: the new car is 미사일 proof. MISSILES. Also, Edward sets up Bella and Alice for sleepovers many times for when he leaves to go eat a mountain lion. Half check.

Number 8: He threatens to commit suicide when 당신 try to break up with him. Self explanatory. He literally attempted suicide. Check!

Number 9: He threatens to kill 당신 over anything from wanting to end the relationship to talking to other men. Well, he does get very, very mad at her when she talks to other guys, in particular, Jacob. Another half check.

Number 10: When he is angry with 당신 he keeps 당신 in a room with no access to a phone. He may lock 당신 in the room. Pretty much, he makes Alice kidnap her. He also took the engine out of her car once. check.

Number 11: When 당신 want to visit with a friend, go out to the 영화 또는 some other past time, he oftentimes vehemently objects 또는 he uses tactics to make 당신 feel guilty so that 당신 will stay home. I already mentioned that he took part of the engine out of her car. This was to keep her from seeing Jacob, he best friend. Check.

Number 12: He will try to convince 당신 that he is sorry for what he has done and will never do it again, only to do it again, and again. Pretty darn much. Check.

I hope now 당신 see the light and that, yes, Edward is abusive. If 당신 want to say why one of these should have been a Check!, a half-check, 또는 nothing at all please say why in the comments. If 당신 have 더 많이 reasons Edward is abusive, that is also a good place to put it.