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Why do I get stared at so much 의해 the way I dress?

Okay so I like to dress quite 아니메 sometimes like over the knee socks, bright colours, big massive bows and 꽃 in my hair, cute dresses and everyone always gives me weird looks because of the way I dress, why do they do that it hurts me? should I just start dressing 더 많이 boring?
 RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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sesshyz said:
Idk.... if I saw someone dressed like that I'd have to look also. People just don't see dress like that everyday. People might even think you're a... *GASP* weeaboo. And/or hungry for attention. (Massive head-bows? really?)

If that's your style...and 당신 want to dress that way, fine....more power to ya... but 당신 need to be able to handle the criticism that goes along with it. People are judgmental, and dressing like that probably doesn't make a best first impression. I'm just being honest.
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Thanks :)
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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and yes I do wear massive head-bows, i think they're amazing
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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np =)
sesshyz posted over a year ago
faiyah226 said:
당신 shouldn't worry about others cause your trying to express yourself and trying to make your own style.don't worry about what others think because its your life.
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Thanks :)
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AcidBanter said:
Don't take it as a negative thing, sometimes when people are looking at 당신 it's probably cuz they like what you're wearing. Well, that's usually what I think when I look at someone's outfit.

I remember one girl had a victorian style dress, but she had a modern 고딕 edge to it, she really suited it.

Just remember it's not a bad thing to turn a few heads.
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Thank 당신 :) it's just i don't like getting stared at but i don't want to dress any differently and i shouldn't have to
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Then don't. Don't let anybody make 당신 feel bad about your style. It's yours, not theirs :)
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vampiressJazz said:
I think it's cool 당신 dress like that :) it's unique, one of a kind. Don't care what others think there probably jealous that 당신 have the confidence to dress that way.

Dressing how 당신 want is fine just as long as 당신 don't dress like your homeless 또는 a slut.
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Thank 당신 :) well I don't have confidence, i'm far from it, i just feel comfortable with the way I dress :) it's how I express myself
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Np :) if 당신 dress how comfortably then it's easier to boost your confidence (:
vampiressJazz posted over a year ago
terhenetar said:
It depends on how they stare. If 당신 dress the way 당신 described, it is only to be expected that people will look at you, simply because they see something out of ordinary. It doesn't necesserily mean that they will stare in a negative and/or judgemental way. It is natural that in a group of, say, 20 people dressed in jeans and t-shirts a person dressed in an 'anime way' will stand out.
So yes, if 당신 do not want to attract attention 당신 should dress in a 더 많이 typical way. 당신 are the only person who can say whether this attraction bothers 당신 또는 not. If it doesn't, keep on dressing the way 당신 do. :) If it does, well, there is another question: Do people just stare 또는 do 당신 notice their negative attitude as well? I'm afraid that there's nothing 당신 can do about those who do not accept individuality and want everyone to dress all the same, apart from ... ignoring them.
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jester616 said:
I think 당신 probably have 더 많이 confidence than 당신 think. It takes guts to stand out. Last 년 my daughter had the same problem at her old school. She's artistic and designs her own clothes, 또는 she likes to wear dresses from the '40s. Other people stared 또는 commented, usually negatively. When she tried to dress 더 많이 "normal", she then got flack for trying to fit in. Ultimately she decided that it's worthless to please others, so she dresses how she likes. Don't let other people get to you. You're young--enjoy it.
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