Idk if anyone will answer but... I really need some help.

Ok so I finally got the courage to tell this guy at my school that I like him but not face to face through a note. Anyways, after I told him, My 프렌즈 decided to talk to him for me since I'm really shy about it and they said He dosen't like me back and He started making a big deal about it. Btw we used to be 프렌즈 and talk alot and have alot of the same interests. My 프렌즈 also told me that He's not mad at me 또는 anything He just feels really akward and he thinks My crush on him is weird. So now He won't even talk to me anymore, He just ignores me like I'm not even there. I try and talk to him but He just still ignores me so I'm starting to think He hates me and He dosn't want to be my friend anymore now that I told him. My 프렌즈 just say to not worry about it and that He's not worth the time and stuff like that. So I'm just really confused and I just really need help. I really don't know what else to do and how he can talk to me again. Btw He didn't talk to me at all about it and this is also my first time telling a guy I like them. Thanks for 읽기 and please Help! :p
 ice2504 posted over a year ago
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coriann said:
당신 seem like a shy person, 또는 at least not someone who is very confident in the way she feels. Look, 당신 have every right to feel like 당신 are in 사랑 with someone, whoever it is, and sometimes that emotion can feel like it's too much to handle. I personally think 당신 did the right thing by...sort of telling him I guess. But 당신 shouldn't use your friends. This is a personal issue that 당신 should have to face head on. Yes, 당신 can rely on your 프렌즈 to do many things for you, but some things need to be done 의해 you. Confessing your 사랑 to someone, at least IMO, is one of those things. 당신 should be able to confront the situation the way 당신 see fit and say what 당신 know 당신 need to say. There's little regret after that, trust me. 당신 asked me if I know a lot about guys. I know about people, and I know girls AND guys, like confidence.

It might be too late to gain a relationship, as in a bf/gf relationship but it's not too late to confront the situation and say what 당신 need to say to him. I had a friend who I had a crush on, and they found out in a rather weird way, and they stopped talking to me too. But it wasn't because they didn't like me, it was because of their own fears and concerns. We only spoke a long time after it happened. My only regret is not talking to them when it still mattered, but 당신 can still do it. Think about it.

Anyway, I think that whatever yo do, 당신 should do what feels right to YOU. So...Good Luck :P
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Thank 당신 so much for the advice!
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Frozengirl11 said:
I feel u. I asked the same 질문 on here, I told a boy I know that I have a crush on him, & things haven't been the same. U can check it out if u'd like. Just give it some time & hopefully he'll come around. Good luck:)
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MaxandMart said:
You've tried talking to him, your 프렌즈 have tried talking to him on your behalf, and he still does not talk to you. Try one last time - ask him outright - do 당신 want to be 프렌즈 - if he does not answer 또는 does not want to be friends, then 옮기기 on.

If he does want to remain 프렌즈 with you, then tell him he needs to communicate with you.

Right now, from the information 당신 have given me, I would say he seems like a 로스트 cause - but give him that last chance anyway - that way 당신 know that it is not 당신 for sure - it is him and his childishness.
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