조언 on a crush?

Hello.
I recently had a crush on a boy, but he got a girlfriend and I realised he really had no personality so I got over him. Literally a few days after I realised one of my friends, lets call him Nicklaus, was really cute.
Last week we went to a 식당 birthday party and I asked one of my closest 프렌즈 if she thought he liked someone, and she replied that she thought he liked me.
I asked 4 프렌즈 if they thought the same thing and they agreed.
I really like him, and everyone is geting my hopes up that he likes me.
I'm afraid that he doesn't actually like me and that I'll be hurt.
What do I do? I know I shouldn't be so negative but I can't help it, whenever I like someone it ends badly for my 심장 and feelings.
Thanks.
 Momo_Hinamori posted over a year ago
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LGYCE said:
Being male and having some experience with this sort of thing, I think 당신 should go somewhere private and talk to him a bit, and ask when it seems the least awkward. If he likes 당신 then he will either tell 당신 so almost immediately when 당신 ask, 또는 act very shy and embarrassed, and try to avoid answering. If he doesn't like 당신 (romantically; 당신 can be 프렌즈 either way), then he will say so, 또는 he will think going somewhere private is odd and misleading. The worst that could happen is he will say he doesn't romantically like you. Discovering that early will be far better than trying to find out for far too long, rather than consider someone who might like 당신 back. It may seem embarrassing 또는 make 당신 nervous, but relationships cannot exist without a beginning. The best of luck!
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Thank you, this is the best and detailed 조언 I've gotten. This was what I wanted in an answer, thank 당신 soooo much! :D
Momo_Hinamori posted over a year ago
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You're welcome. Hope it helps!
LGYCE posted over a year ago
jeannette27 said:
just ask him if he likes 당신 I did that and needless to say a 년 later we got married. if he doesn't we'll his loss
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EgoMouse said:
Worst that could happen is if he say no.
Worst that will happen if 당신 never ask is a bunch of nervous tension of "What if?".
You'll either forget about him 또는 regret never asking.
So go ask him out.
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angelwings2055 said:
Talk to him
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Catherine51197 said:
I know this has already been said 의해 everybody else & can be easier said than done, but talk to him. Chances are though, that he'll either say no 또는 deny it, but if he shows any of the signs (e.g. blushing, 연기 awkward, getting defensive) then he most definitely likes 당신 & 당신 should do something; 또는 if your to shy, ask 1 of your closest 프렌즈 to talk to his best friend in case he told them. Just try not to get too depressed if he honestly doesn't, there's still friendship.
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